Here’s How To Bring The Kitchen Into The Bedroom – The Right Way
This Season, show your gal you’re thankful for her in more ways than one. You may have always thought about using food in the bedroom to literally spice things up, but you might not have had the guts to actually talk about it with your girl.
It’s an easy conversation starter and while you might not like it once you give it a go, getting hot and heavy while the stove is on will probably make both of you orgasm. How to do it? Where? With what foods? How is it sexy? Sex experts give the 101 on having sex… with food involved.
Bringing Up the Idea
Before you go away for the holidays, make (or order in) dinner for your girl and focus on aphrodisiac foods, author and dating coach, Laurel House suggests. “Blindfold her and feed her each flavor, making her guess the food,” she says. There are lots of foods that are known for turning people on — from oysters and chocolate to pumpkin and avocado — the choices are really up to you and your gal’s palette. Once she’s tasted everything, take off the blindfold and place a little whipped cream on her nipple — and lick it off. It’ll give her the clue that you’re looking for some extra play.
You might not be allergic to peanuts when you eat them, but some folks have different reactions to foods when they’re placed on the body. Though unlikely, just keep an eye out for any strange flare-ups that could happen. Dr. Kat Van Kirk, sexologist and relationship expert, also says to put away any spicy foods that could be super-painful in certain places. Your chemistry will be steamy enough on its own!
Have a Feast On Your Bods
So now that you’ve tried foods that can make her wet, now it’s time to bring in the dishes into the actual act. Before you head out of town, have a Thanksgiving dinner at home, and make sure you leave room for lots of seconds. Van Kirk suggested to go slowly through the courses and decide what food might work best for each food. Use mashed potatoes for the whipped cream by slathering it on her belly. If you want to get kinky, use the corn-on-the-cob to rub over her clit for some extra stimulation. Cranberry sauce can also be a sweet treat that can be placed anywhere on the body… and it’s sticky, so she might have to spend some extra time down there to make sure you’re clean. The key here is to get creative and have some fun! “Your girl will never look at pumpkin pie and yams the same way again!” says House.
But Where in the Kitchen Can You Get it On?
While the thought of having sex in the kitchen is enough to turn you on, be careful, experts advise. Accidents happen — so put away the knives or anything that could fall off the top shelf and hit you on either head. And then — have at it! “The best places to experiment with a little food play are your kitchen floor or on larger surfaces that can hold your weight, like the kitchen counter,” Van Kirk says. House suggests using this as an opportunity to push your girl up against the sink or to where she’s able to look out a window and do it from behind. Once you’re finished, the best part might just be the shower to get the food off… together.